Or have you not made your mind up whether or not to get her anything? Does she deserve it? Will she take it for granted? Will she think you're trying to buy her back?

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Kind of a slippery slope there. One thing you will want to avoid if you are still trying to get her back is manipulating her. If you think you can buy her back you will most likely fail. Women see right through that stuff anymore. They love gifts when things are great in relationships of course, but not in this case.

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So what is your relationship like with her right now? Do you still stay in touch? Deciding whether or not to get your ex girlfriend a present for Christmas depends on how things are now, and how things ended. If you stay in contact with her perhaps a little "im thinking about you" present isn't such a bad idea.

On the other hand if things didn't end all so well, and you two haven't had much contact a present for Christmas will seem a little weird to her.

Assuming you will get your ex girlfriend a Christmas present lets discuss some possibilities.

What is she interested in?

Think about her first before you. By that I mean think about her interests in your decision rather than what you hope she might like.

Women base judgements on men on how thoughtful they are and how creative you can or cannot be. Relationships have ended because men's lack of thoughtfulness.

What would you want the present to say or tell her? Stay away from buying something that is too cheap or too expensive. Or a present that is obvious you were in a rush to get her something for Christmas just so you look good. This will likely be obvious you didnt put much thought into the gift.

If you're going to do it do it right.

You probably cant go wrong if you got her a Christmas basket with all the girly goodies in it. If you are hoping for a great first impression, Christmas gift baskets for women comes in different shapes and sizes, and will capture her attention. And they always look good.

Throw in a nice card and bow along with your well assorted gift basket and you should be in good shape.

Whatever choice you decide make sure its for the right reasons. You dont want to make it seem you are trying to manipulate her. You are simply thinking about her, and when you saw this little gift basket it screamed her name.

What Are You Going to Get Your Ex Girlfriend For Christmas?

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